I have noticed that there is a huge difference in the way successful and unsuccessful people think.The challenge is that the unsuccessful people are not tenacious to have a date with success due to their limiting beliefs.Many changes are happening around which demands us to be more innovative as we are gradually approaching towards a new lifestyle.Time and again I get into the introspective mood, an inner tug of war go deep within analyzing my own journey and asking myself this question frequently;
Will I make great in my life? Have I had my Date with Success?
Am I on the right track? Have I achieved all my dreams? Did I do justice to my wit? I am sure many of you must be thinking alike.Each one of us want to be affluent, successful but without leaving the comfort. Anyone who has steered the victory and became successful in his own direction or is in the process, has to experience many failures.
Let me ask you,
What’s Success for you?
- Becoming a role model
- Starting your own venture
- Excellent education for your kids
- Buying a big house
- Owner of your favorite car
- World trip with your family
- Leaving the world as a better place than how you found it.
Robin Sharma says,”The laughter from your critics is actually appraise for your talents.”
To give you a realistic approach, we must analyze what we cut for, our Drive, our Passion.I believe, when we do what we sincerely love doing, there is just no looking back.I come across a few observations from my life which I want to share before you start a plan for your success:
Prioritize yourself: Be very clear what you want to achieve.There always be people around you to make you settle down, want you to believe that you have set your aspirations too high, telling you to put all your dreams in a box and carry forward an average life. It’s their problem, not yours, don’t settle for less than what you must aspire for.
Raise the bar higher: During my workshops in corporate and interactions with students, I normally ask this question.The question is, do you remember who was No. 1 in your class recently and they say YES! When I ask who is no. 2 & 3, I barely get the answer I am looking for. This is exactly what is applicable to our lives. Work for No.1 position and raise the bar high.
Honor your calling: Each one of us has the power to do something big. Always harness your power to PASSION. If it is inside you, it will not take much of the time coming outside if you work on it.
Trust your heart: Do not jeopardize yourself.It is YOU & ONLY YOU who has the power to RISE above all the noise around .Have guts to say it to yourself, I can do it.
I have shared my personal experience. Also, I encounter a lot of resourceful people in my life during the usually unplanned meet, a walk or a flight. I mean; when you conceive something with all your heart, the universe conspires it to happen & join the dots for you.
“If you want to have more, you have to become more. For things to change, you have to change.
For things to get better, you have to become better.If you improve, everything will improve for you.
If you grow, your money will grow, your relationships, your health, your business and every external effect
Will mirror that growth in equal correlation.” – Jim Rohn
Here is the best part;
If you have started working towards your dreams, you have surpassed that chaos situation and all those people who are yet to begin.There are numerous brilliant students graduating every year but once in a while cause a phenomenon like Facebook or Flipkart and on the other side we see many business entrepreneurs expanding into the chain of multiple divisions and achieving sky rocket success. To taste it, one has to be seasoned & conditioned for years.
What is the prerequisite of making big? When do we know Success has arrived?
I belong to a family of Educators. I wanted to make a significant transformation in Education System with Positive change in individual’s growth pattern. I came up with my initiative “REV UP LIFE SKILLS UNIT”, a portal nurturing talents.
Did I start big? Did I follow anyone?
The answer stands NO! I did a humble beginning as I believe my efforts are bound to reward me.On our journey stepping out of that wicked comfort zone, we all stumble,might fall. But nothing at all in this world is FAILURE it’s just not supposed to work that way. Instead, It’s the time to change the course of action.
There is no losing, JUST learning!
No failure, only opportunities!
No problems, only solutions!
All this to make you COME BACK – BIGGER, BETTER & STRONGER!!
Wish you all your dream date with splendid success.
See the Brighter Side! Look for Opportunities! Dream Big!!